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Reflections
Saturday, June 12, 2010; ( 9:35 PM )
I shan't be so foolish anymore. I cant imagine how i can be so foolish that time to have believed it and have had some fantasies about it. Men's sweet-talk is never meant to be trusted upon. Yea, i realised that time during that incident that i can really be easily deceived by ppl when im being complimented. I'm REALLY vulnerable when it comes to sweet-talk. At that moment, you will suddenly feel a surge of happiness and become complacent just a little, though very likely, im bound to deny. That incident where i almost landed myself into deep trouble struck my mind today before going out(and i thought, is it REALLY OVER NOW???) But coincidentally, i saw that dreadful person again.However,this time round, i really totally avoid dat person when he approached me again. It's damn dumb lah....:( The person that is... Ok, so it seems that im feeling angry and frustrated throughout my bus journey back home...all becos of that dreadful person whom has caused me to do smth so foolish, FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE! Fortunately,i guess it's really over now cos i really really couldnt find my blog entry when i googled a certain phrase dat i have sort of said bad stuff abt dat person online. But really, smth to learn from this, is dat some guys can be really gd at sweettalking and stuff, pls dont fall into it. I really don't wish to bring up this incident again anymore, so let's just let it be gone....forever... But i will ALWAYS rmb the lesson learnt from it! The thing right now, however, is that i can no longer sort of differentiate b/w what is true and not true, cos you wont know if a person, let's say, ur bf is true to u or nt, cos u know ppl can be hot and cold sometimes, i think this is due to my bro sweettalking to his gf, and the way he answered me when i asked him if he really likes his gf or nt is like he can break up with his gf ANYTIME! Perhaps, a guy treats a girl very well initially, is for the sake of being in a bg relationship with her, JUST FOR THE SAKE OF BEING IN IT. Ok, im well aware of the fact that im kinda overgeneralising, not all guys are like that, but sadly,those really true ones forms the minority...... Girls' perspectives of being in a relationship is different from the guys...guys probably think that they can just try it out, while girls' mental state of being in a relationship with the guy in the first place, is becos they tot that they could last very long and they have considered several considerations b4 agreeing to go steady, so as to make sure that their choice is wise.(which means that The guy is of husband material)Thus, girls tend to put more feelings and effort into making the relationship work out.Note that this is only applicable to those non-ah lians...LOL...im not ostracising them arh...lol |
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